Change is the constant thing. But it is another ball game when it comes to accepting it and living it. On the 1st day of what promises to be a “happy new year”, the atmosphere all of a sudden became a calm and that of surprise no thanks to the new year gift announced by the number one citizen of our beloved country and giant of Africa, President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.
What was supposed to be a happy new beginning became the opposite. All those who went to their various places of worship and had returned with great expectations of what the year has to offer began to doubt their men of God, no thanks to the ”unexpected” new year gift by the president. What we were all expecting to take effect in April, suddenly decided to use January as its arrival date precisely the first day. What a way to begin a new year.
The price of petrol is now 141N I couldn’t believe what my ears heard so, I quickly picked my phone and called my Dad whom I believe was in a better position to give me the most reliable information. From the first statement he made, I already knew he knew what I was calling him for and of course, his guess was right. After picking his call the first statement that proceeded out of my helpless lips was ”is it through dad” and he replied “yes my son” immediately I dropped the call and my heart melted.
I started pondering, is this the solution to our problem, is this the first step that should be taken, have I not wasted my vote? Different thought started passing through my thinking faculty.
If at all there is the need to remove subsidy from petrol is this the way to go about it. It this government not sensitive to the effect it would have on the masses even if they have what it takes to cope with any price at all. I am not against the removal of subsidy but what borders me is the effect it would have on the cost of living which definitely will be felt mostly by the masses. The implication of this is that everything, without will become more expensive while salaries remain at the same level.
Instead of increasing the price of petrol or removing the subsidy, why not reduce the cost of governing first. How can only one person be collecting 600N million because he is a political office holder? I thought he is there to serve? Such a person would not feel the effect as the common man whose annual take home pay is not even up to 1M? Indeed this government is not sensitive to the suffering of the masses at all.
In the process of expressing their anger, some innocent citizens have lost their lives. Only God knows what the future holds for them. If the right step had been taken there wouldn’t have been the need for people losing their loved ones.
I am of the opinion that instead of removing subsidy first, the effect of the removal on the masses should have been the first thing so that the direct effect will not be shouldered by the common man who hardly feeds his family twice a day.
Besides that, students have been at home for months because ASSU has been on strike, which should have been resolved before creating another unfriendly atmosphere for the citizens. It goes a long way to show that the gov3ernment is not concerned about the future of the country.
In conclusion, until the Federal Government give we Nigerians a convincing explanation and audit on how the fund of this country have been handled for the last 15years, they have no right to remove the subsidy from petrol because they have not been accountable to us.
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Teenagers Take Note
The life of any human is made up of different sectors and aspect. That is, what makes up a man is more than the physical him you see every day, his life is divided into various and different components (financial, spiritual, emotional, psychological, etc.). And apart from that, there are different stages of live/living, which we all must someday pass through (it’s just a matter of time). These stages have their different lessons attached to them of which we have to learn else, reality will catch up with us someday.
One of the most sensitive and in fact the most critical of all is the period known as the”TEEN-AGE”. The teen-age is the stage at which the shape of adult-hood is formed and “the future personality” and character is built. The Wikipedia defines a teenager (teen) as, “a young person whose age is between thirteen and nineteen (13-19). They are called teenagers because their age number ends in “teen”. ”
This stage of life has its peculiarities and care must be taken to bare them in mind by parents, would-be parents as well as teenagers in order to avoid being a victim. Briefly we shall take a look at some characteristics synonymous with this stage (teen-age) of human growth. Teenagers go through a lot of physical, mental and emotional during this period this is called adolescence or puberty.
Characteristics of Teenagers
1. Moody
2. Energetic
3. Rebellious
4. Think they know it all
5. Selfish
6. Irresponsible
7. Insensitive
8. Insecure
9. Conforming and
10. Promiscuous.
Although there might be exception with some teenagers, but care must be taken to note these things to avoid unnecessary clash between parents-teenagers and teachers-teenagers.
According to Jake Morphonios, in his article titled, Preparing Teenagers for the Challenges of Life: A Critical Evaluation of Common Resources. “Parents often lack the tact, skill or interest to effectively help their teens during this tumultuous period in their lives. This raises questions as to what resources may be most useful to help prepare teenagers to face these challenges”. These challenges include; the development of an identity, the transformation of family relationships, and development of close relationship with peers, the development of sexuality etc.
However, the purpose of this write-up is on one of the major challenges that our teenagers face. This does not in any way undermine the importance relevance of other challenges.
The development of sexuality or the display of Promiscuous attitudes by teens must be handled with every form of seriousness and wisdom at the same time. This is a stage where the child needs the parent(s) the more and parents are also expected to make themselves available to their wards as well. In fact, parents are supposed to relate more as a friend to their teens like never before when they begin to sense the display of such attitude.
Any mistake or carelessness of the teens could lead to a major setback in his/her life. Prior to this time, parents are expected to start educating their teens on how to handle the opposite sex and this must be done with every sense of honesty. This is very vital because if it is not done at home (parents etc.), one way or the other, the child will know about it and the resultant effect might be disastrous. So the importance of sex education must be given utmost priority.
In the world that we are today, there are many means through which a child can be educated. And these tools of education often influence their behavior negatively if not properly guided. This is where the role of a proper foundation comes to play its role. Sources or causes of influence include; peer group, media, parents, siblings, relatives, teachers, background/environment, personal experience etc.
A lot of teens today are involved in sex and many of them have in fact become addicted and obsessed with it. According to UNICEF, 70,000 pregnant teenagers from the ages of 15 and 19 die each year from child birth and pregnancy related complications. And those who give birth under the age of 15 are five times more likely not to survive.
Furthermore, there are over 20million women in the world in the 20-24 age range who were married before they turned 18. Most of those child brides reside in South Asia and Africa. Under the age of 18, mothers face a 60% greater chance that their child will die in its first year of birth.
Enough is enough. We must put an end to this and it starts from you. We all must make conscious effort to help “our teenagers (teenagers around us)”, they can’t do it all by themselves. They need our help to come out of that dilemma; they need a true friend and not a boss. Parents please change your attitude towards them; draw them closer, they need you more than ever so that their destiny will not be corrupted or tampered with.
The How to Teach Them
1. Plan a time to talk to your teens about abstinence- a time that you’ll have his/her full attention.
2. Ask your teens to give her definition of abstinence and then use that for the discussion.
3. Give your perception of abstinence based on your personal outlook.
4. Be prepared with statistics regarding teen sex. You can even go as far as printing the statistics out to have on hand during your conversation.
5. Make the communication level open. That s, don’t be too rigid or bossy during the conversation.
And to the teens, stop those negative and life destroying habits you have hitherto embraced. Seek advice/ counsel of someone who can help a godly grown-up and matured person. Teenagers please never continue to think that no one cares about you…there is always someone who is willing and ready to help, all you have to do is call for help. Your parent, religious leaders, teachers, siblings etc. are all willing to help you.
Hey teenager! Your life is a very precious jewel and you can’t afford to handle it anyhow else you’ll have no one to blame but you. There are some mistakes that you cannot afford to make now ‘cos they’ll tell on your future. Please what lies ahead of you is very important than the pleasure of the moment. Boy, you don’t need a girl friend now and my dear sister, you don’t need a boy-friend now- all he wants is your body and nothing else. Don’t let him cause you emotional pain. STOP IT NOW before it is too late.
Courtesy: D’Kingz Pen.
08036524707, 08184679839
One of the most sensitive and in fact the most critical of all is the period known as the”TEEN-AGE”. The teen-age is the stage at which the shape of adult-hood is formed and “the future personality” and character is built. The Wikipedia defines a teenager (teen) as, “a young person whose age is between thirteen and nineteen (13-19). They are called teenagers because their age number ends in “teen”. ”
This stage of life has its peculiarities and care must be taken to bare them in mind by parents, would-be parents as well as teenagers in order to avoid being a victim. Briefly we shall take a look at some characteristics synonymous with this stage (teen-age) of human growth. Teenagers go through a lot of physical, mental and emotional during this period this is called adolescence or puberty.
Characteristics of Teenagers
1. Moody
2. Energetic
3. Rebellious
4. Think they know it all
5. Selfish
6. Irresponsible
7. Insensitive
8. Insecure
9. Conforming and
10. Promiscuous.
Although there might be exception with some teenagers, but care must be taken to note these things to avoid unnecessary clash between parents-teenagers and teachers-teenagers.
According to Jake Morphonios, in his article titled, Preparing Teenagers for the Challenges of Life: A Critical Evaluation of Common Resources. “Parents often lack the tact, skill or interest to effectively help their teens during this tumultuous period in their lives. This raises questions as to what resources may be most useful to help prepare teenagers to face these challenges”. These challenges include; the development of an identity, the transformation of family relationships, and development of close relationship with peers, the development of sexuality etc.
However, the purpose of this write-up is on one of the major challenges that our teenagers face. This does not in any way undermine the importance relevance of other challenges.
The development of sexuality or the display of Promiscuous attitudes by teens must be handled with every form of seriousness and wisdom at the same time. This is a stage where the child needs the parent(s) the more and parents are also expected to make themselves available to their wards as well. In fact, parents are supposed to relate more as a friend to their teens like never before when they begin to sense the display of such attitude.
Any mistake or carelessness of the teens could lead to a major setback in his/her life. Prior to this time, parents are expected to start educating their teens on how to handle the opposite sex and this must be done with every sense of honesty. This is very vital because if it is not done at home (parents etc.), one way or the other, the child will know about it and the resultant effect might be disastrous. So the importance of sex education must be given utmost priority.
In the world that we are today, there are many means through which a child can be educated. And these tools of education often influence their behavior negatively if not properly guided. This is where the role of a proper foundation comes to play its role. Sources or causes of influence include; peer group, media, parents, siblings, relatives, teachers, background/environment, personal experience etc.
A lot of teens today are involved in sex and many of them have in fact become addicted and obsessed with it. According to UNICEF, 70,000 pregnant teenagers from the ages of 15 and 19 die each year from child birth and pregnancy related complications. And those who give birth under the age of 15 are five times more likely not to survive.
Furthermore, there are over 20million women in the world in the 20-24 age range who were married before they turned 18. Most of those child brides reside in South Asia and Africa. Under the age of 18, mothers face a 60% greater chance that their child will die in its first year of birth.
Enough is enough. We must put an end to this and it starts from you. We all must make conscious effort to help “our teenagers (teenagers around us)”, they can’t do it all by themselves. They need our help to come out of that dilemma; they need a true friend and not a boss. Parents please change your attitude towards them; draw them closer, they need you more than ever so that their destiny will not be corrupted or tampered with.
The How to Teach Them
1. Plan a time to talk to your teens about abstinence- a time that you’ll have his/her full attention.
2. Ask your teens to give her definition of abstinence and then use that for the discussion.
3. Give your perception of abstinence based on your personal outlook.
4. Be prepared with statistics regarding teen sex. You can even go as far as printing the statistics out to have on hand during your conversation.
5. Make the communication level open. That s, don’t be too rigid or bossy during the conversation.
And to the teens, stop those negative and life destroying habits you have hitherto embraced. Seek advice/ counsel of someone who can help a godly grown-up and matured person. Teenagers please never continue to think that no one cares about you…there is always someone who is willing and ready to help, all you have to do is call for help. Your parent, religious leaders, teachers, siblings etc. are all willing to help you.
Hey teenager! Your life is a very precious jewel and you can’t afford to handle it anyhow else you’ll have no one to blame but you. There are some mistakes that you cannot afford to make now ‘cos they’ll tell on your future. Please what lies ahead of you is very important than the pleasure of the moment. Boy, you don’t need a girl friend now and my dear sister, you don’t need a boy-friend now- all he wants is your body and nothing else. Don’t let him cause you emotional pain. STOP IT NOW before it is too late.
Courtesy: D’Kingz Pen.
08036524707, 08184679839