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Saturday, August 11, 2012

My Definition of VALUES

The values of a man determine to a large extent what he does and how he thinks.
 
 The value you place on somebody or something determines your disposition towards it (how you handle it). The dictionary defines values as, beliefs of a person or social group in which they have an emotional investment (either for or against something). what your values are determines what you value -I value things such as; Character, Integrity, Self development, Life, Honesty, knowledge and Love to mention just a few, and the way I relate with and to these things is as a result of the worth I have placed on them.
The value I place on the people in my life is responsible for how I relate with them, my principle about inter-personal relationship states that ”treat people well to the best of your ability because you can never tell where and when you’ll meet again ” My personal definition of values is an acronym which I’ll share with you in a while and I implore you to work with it closely because I believe it will help you a great deal. My dear reader life is too short that you don’t care how you live ( your life)…don’t ever think you’ll have time on your side. Do all your best to make the best use of your time. Dear reader, your life is so precious that someone had to give His ALL for you. My definition of values is given as follows:

Vision: this is the picture of the future you see about yourself which has been revealed to you by a supernatural power GOD); and is applicable to every area of your life i.e. spiritual, finance, relationship, career etc.

Attitude is your disposition towards your pictured future. That is, what you’re thinking or how you are acting towards your vision which includes people regardless of the age, societal status and unexpected occurrences (challenges) etc. someone defines attitude as “the Aroma of your heart”.

Legacy: your legacy is what speaks for you when you are no more either because you have moved on or dead. Another word for legacy is will- a legal document declaring a person's wishes regarding the disposal of their property when they die. How rich is will, what is it worth, what will be said about that vision of yours (positive or negative), how long will your legacy live after you are no more and how WELL are you living? Stop thinking you are too young to start building a legacy- time has never being any one’s friend.

Usefulness: never continue to think you exist for yourself alone. No man was created to live in isolation. Different people have contributed to get you to where you are today in other words, they have been useful to you and courtesy demands that you do same to them and others. That vision, gift, talent, influence, wealth etc. is meant to be a platform for you to reach out and be of use to people-they need you.

Empowerment: my dear friend, you have been empowered to empower others; your vision should have a way of making (impacting) others better. Besides that, you should also keep making yourself better as each day passes by- find time to know more that you did yesterday, acquire more knowledge and improve your worth. Empower yourself- learn something, get better each day, read (good) books, attend seminars etc.

Structure(s): Dear friend, your life is a structure and must be treated as such, the quality of materials been used to build it matters a lot. Just as you’d want the best for your residential building so you should for your life. The kind of materials you allow to be used- the people, books, films etc. that you expose yourself to matter a whole lot. How well are these things contributing to the quality of your life. If you don’t have a mentor or teacher, get one very soon- someone you respect and can learn from.
My friends, it is high-time we begin to live our lives in such a way that it becomes good example to someone, somehow and somewhere. Let’s build the right values hence, making our society a better place. The above principles are applicable to any area of life and with the right attitude, good results are inevitable. They have worked and are still working for me and I believe they will work for you. All the best! Vision + Attitude + Legacy + Usefulness + Empowerment +Structures = VALUES

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