One of the greatest enemies of a
person’s glorious destiny is unforgiveness, it has the capacity to breakdown a
man or woman, and hinder him or her from reaching his or her peak in life. Any
human that finds it difficult to forgive will most likely live most of their
lives in pain and hurt. The bitter truth is that it is almost impossible, in
fact, it is very unlikely for a man or woman to live his or her life without
being offended or offending another person. The fact that we are human beings
means we are not perfect hence, we are bound to hurt another person’s feelings.
The relationship between opposite
sex is not an exception. Heartbreak is not a new thing anymore, there are countless
number of people whose hearts have been broken countless number of times. In
fact, some hearts have been broken beyond repair. Some people never recover from heartbreak,
while some do recover; there are those who claim to recover but they really
never do, rather, they come out worse, looking for who to “devour”.
Anything that does not kill you
only gives you an opportunity to defeat it. It is an indication that you’ve got
a victory to claim. Never let a man who does not know your worth make you settle
for less. God has invested so much inside of you; you are the apple of God’s
eyes. Who dares touch the eyes of God? Don’t settle for less!
My dear, if your heart has
been broken by any guy, it simply means he’s not supposed to be a part of your
(glorious) future. However, that does not mean you should not forgive. Forgiveness
is an attribute of champions, and any mature human should have some good
measure of it. The truth is, people will often cross our paths, but we have to
forgive and move on with life. Life is too short to be living in unforgiveness.
I won’t give you steps or things to do so that you’d
be able to recover from heartbreak… but one thing I know for sure is,
“heartbreak is not life-break” it is not the end of the world. What you make
out of it is a matter of choice. Life continues, instead of sitting and
wallowing in self-pity, get involved in well-meaning activities (serve God and
humanity), strive to become a better person. Also, get yourself involved in
things that you are passionate about; things that you delight doing, and things
that make you happy. For me, one of the best write-ups I have ever done was
when I was in tears, I look back today, and thank God ‘cos that time made me
stronger and more mature emotionally. When you let go, you free your life from another
person’s control. My dear friend, Jesus was betrayed by one of His
disciples yet He forgave, He was crucified yet, He forgave…forgive, and move on
with your life. God bless you.
Adeniran Bamisaye
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Twitter:@Dkingzpen
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